From The Desk of Parenting Expert, Shelly Lefkoe:

If you knew that innocent mistakes could affect your children negatively for the rest of their lives...
Would you change your behavior?

If you could discover exactly what would help them to turn out just the way you want...
Would you listen?

Dear Dedicated Parent,

After working with hundreds of parents over the past 22 years, I'd like to share a proven, systematic approach to raising children that will not only allow you to have an amazing relationship with them, but will also give you the tools to help them have a happy, successful life.

Your life and your children's lives could be so much more joyful by using the system I have developed. In fact, I call it the Effective Parenting Method.

By practicing this method personally, my two daughters have the high self-esteem and vibrant self-confidence that has helped them become the master of their lives - from their ability to create nurturing relationships, to their love of learning, and to their amazing ability to deal effectively with whatever life presents them with.

How did we as a family accomplish that? By developing a method based on one fundamental principle: Our beliefs about ourselves, people, and life are crucial in determining how we live.

This may seem obvious, but don’t let that fool you.

In fact, right now you may be doing things (or failing to do things) that will lead your beautiful, young children to a negative conclusion or belief about themselves, others or life… without you even realizing it.

How scary is that?

I can’t tell you how many parents have asked me these questions about their children:

  • How come my daughter cares so much about what people think?
  • Why doesn’t my son express his feelings?
  • Why don’t my kids want to do their best?
  • Why do they get so stressed out at school or become angry so easily?

Shelly and Morty Lefkoe, with their two girls, Blake and Brittany

The answer is they’ve formed beliefs - most of which they are not aware of - that cause them to behave in these ways. And guess what? Most of their beliefs come from you. Yes, you, their parent, from interpreting what they saw you or your spouse say or do when they were very young.

I know this might be hard to accept, and may even be a little confusing, but please keep reading because there is good news and we are here to share it with you!

My husband and I have developed a special guide called The Guide to Effective Parenting.

What you will learn when you read this step-by-step tutorial:

  • To positively influence your children in powerful ways that lead to higher levels of self-esteem, joy and confidence.
  • To help your children create a level of personal responsibility that allows them to succeed in every area of their life.

You’re probably thinking this sounds great, but how? Well, it starts with you. By going through the material, you become completely aware of the way you deal with everyday situations such as chores, homework and getting your kids to bed. If you are like most parents, chores, homework and bedtime are not always stress-free. Many of our clients ask us:

  • Why does it always have to be a screaming match?
  • Isn’t there an easier way?

If this scenario sounds familiar, you’re most likely helping them create negative conclusions and beliefs about themselves.

With our unique approach in the Guide to Effective Parenting, you’ll learn how to handle these same situations with a much more positive outcome. You will learn techniques that will change your home life forever. You’ll be happy. And, when you’re happy, your kids are happy.

Here are even more examples of the things you’ll learn:

  • How to get your kids to do things like homework, brushing their teeth, and cleaning their room - without a battle.
  • How the way you express anger can be harmful to your children and how a 7-word sentence can help avoid the damage it causes.
  • How to teach your kids to respect your own personal boundaries.

    …and so much more!

After reading The Guide to Effective Parenting, you’ll find that you don’t need to read dozens of other books. The principles we share will allow you to solve many of your parenting problems, simply and easily.

Download your copy now. Create the sane, peaceful life you want by learning the techniques and principles we know will lead your child and yourself to a brighter future. We have been told time after time by hundreds of parents that this information is priceless.

"As the parents of six children ages 5 through 16 years old my wife and I took pride in how well behaved our children were. Reading Effective Parenting opened our eyes to the fact that we were trying to control our children’s behavior. Our children, especially the older ones felt they had little freedom. Though we’re still not perfect, we’re now giving our children the space, time and love they need to grow. We’re much less worried about the “RULES” and feel good about that. Now we’re focused on interacting with our children in ways that will help them develop strong and positive beliefs about themselves and the world around them. The result has been great! There is much more love, respect and harmony in our home and everyone, including my wife and I, are much happier. Thanks so much for sharing your knowledge and making our lives so much better."

Malcolm McCance
Alberta, Canada

"Shelly and Morty are amazing. The information they shared with me changed my life! I no longer get stressed out on Sunday night thinking about my kid’s homework. I don’t have to scream to get results. I am now truly experiencing the joys of parenting and it is awesome."

Jody Schwartz
Santa Barbara, CA

"If you are a frustrated parent, Shelly and Morty are a must! Their information is so simple yet so powerful it blew my mind! I never thought it could be this easy. My kids are so happy these days!"

Victoria Shuken
Lake Sherwood, CA

If you were to train with us in person, this information would cost you hundreds of dollars. But, because there are only so many hours in the day and we can’t coach everyone individually, we have created this simple and affordable, downloadable version for only $5.95. There’s no shipping and handling cost, and you can start right away.

This document is easy to understand, just 35 pages long and a breeze to get through. You’ll be on your way to Effective Parenting instantly and for less than the cost of lunch these days! If you feel that The Guide to Effective Parenting is not worth every penny, we will refund your money – no questions asked!

Your child's future depends on YOU!

Most parents will not spend the time to attend a workshop or read a book on parenting. But while that's truly unfortunate, it's also easy to see that you are different.

You’ve read this far. You’re obviously part of a different group - one that is truly committed to their children’s future well-being and success. So let’s get started. Click on the link below to begin a journey with your children that WE PROMISE they will thank you for FOREVER!

Remember, there isn’t a more valuable gift you can give your children - than the gift of a positive difference in their lives. Order The Guide to Effective Parenting. It even makes a great gift for other parents you care about!


Shelly Lefkoe

PS. You and I both know you could order this information at a later date. But we also know that every day you wait is another day of frustration that didn’t have to happen - another day that your kids slip further from your ability to influence them in a positive way.

Don’t wait to help your children become the amazing adults you want them to be. They are important to you! Take action today and order The Guide to Effective Parenting right now:


"The skills that I’ve gained not only enhanced and nurtured a more cooperative relationship with my family, but have served me in my relationships at work."

Ruth Bonomo
Westport, CT

"After downloading Shelly and Morty Lefkoe's, Guide to Effective Parenting, I felt like they had been living in my house for the last eleven years. It seemed they knew everything my children were doing and saying to us on a daily basis. Their uncanny ability to teach my wife and I about parenting has changed the way we parent our children forever. This is an absolute must for all parents. "

Jeff Aubery
Santa Barbara, CA

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