One day I was having lunch with my friend Denis Hann. I told him of my plans to train thousands of people to use my method to help others change their limiting beliefs. I said that this was how I hoped to reach millions of people and transform the world.
You’ll never guess what he told me.
He said, “It doesn’t matter how many people you train. You’ll never transform the world that way in a hundred years. It takes you about a year to train a group of 20 people. And maybe one out of 100 will train others. That one person who trains others will get the same results or worse. It’ll take a long time to multiply your efforts that way.”
“But what other alternative do I have?” I said.
He thought for a bit. Then he said, “There’s got to be a way to get people through your process and get rid of beliefs without a live human being guiding them.”
“Maybe… but I have no idea what it is.”
During this conversation Denis suggested that an interactive video program—a program people could respond to and that could respond back—would be able to guide individuals into eliminating beliefs on their own.
So we worked for two years to produce the first interactive video program to help people bust the beliefs that cause the fear of public speaking—which is one of the ways that a lack of self-confidence shows up for many people.
We had spent a lot of money ($347,234) to create a high-quality program—that turned out to have a lot more bells and whistles than we actually needed—and were a little nervous as we allowed 39 fearful public speakers to initially test the interactive video.
We sent the beta testers surveys to see how effective the program was. Did their fear actually go away? We had the results compiled for us into one spreadsheet so we could see at a glance if we’d succeeded or failed.
When the envelope arrived with the results, we waited with baited breath. If the program didn’t work, our investment would be lost… As we scanned the results we were excited to discover that over 86% of the formerly fearful speakers totally got rid of their fear of public speaking with our program.
In fact we were overjoyed. Finally, we knew we could help people get rid of their beliefs quickly and easily with interactive video. Denis was right. This was the way to help millions of people and change the world.
A few years later we created the Natural Confidence program which has helped thousands change their lives.
Below, leave me any comments, questions or suggestions you have.
Morty Lefkoe
I love your system <3 I did the "I am not good enough" very powerful!
hello Morty,
My belief that I have for all of my life that i wasn’t good enough is gone.
You helped me so much. Your way of helping people really works.
I am so thankfull of that.
Thank you Morty
you have helped me a lot. I feel free and I love myself now.
I am really thankfull of who I am.
Thanks again and succes
I really don’t want to burst everyone’s bubble. i think it’s great if this helps you – it hasn’t really helped me, perhaps cause i like to overthink?
Morty, if i’m not mistaken, your logic goes like this: “there is suffering because we attach meaning to events. if you remove the meaning, you remove suffering.”
by that token, EVERYTHING, including joy, pleasure, fun is what it is, because you attached meaning to events. Your wife kissing you, your child making a little gift for you, EVERYTHING. if you start dissolving meaning from events that give you grief, you should do that for all events. Then pretty soon, life is just a series of meaningless events. As a Libran whose internal value is balance, i can’t just dissolve meaning from suffering, and leave happy events as meaningful.
When i watched my first belief elimination video “i’m not good enough”, it had me racking my brain for childhood memories of my parents yelling at me. i had to pretty much make up one. even today, i’m not certain that my parents yelling at me is where my “i’m not good enough” belief came from. i may be wrong, but i have no recollection of having this belief till i was 16 or 17.
Things like God (or the universe) loving me and supporting me, Eckhart Tolle’s idea of being present etc. feel more sustainable and long-term to me. It may be that you have already internalized all those, which is helping you with Morty’s belief elimination system. perhaps i need to get to a certain level before this helps me.
Hi Nilesh,
The trick is YOU choose what you want to eliminate. No-one else. So why not choose to eliminate those things that are bugging you and nothing else? Easy, isn’t it?
Andrew
Hi Nilesh,
Great point you made. I discuss how to have positive feelings after we dissolve the unconscious and automatic meaning we give to moment by moment events.
See my blog posts: https://www.mortylefkoe.com/life_is_a_game/ and https://www.mortylefkoe.com/really-create-happiness/
Love, Morty
Morty, thank you. It seems to be helping. Thank you for doing this. It is wonderful that there are people like you who are willing to put in the risk and commitment to help others.
I would like to take to take Natural Confidence course. Could I do it at the library on their computer?
Hi Wendell,
Sure. If you buy the DVD version you can insert it in the library computer. You probably could use the streaming video version also.
You have to answer questions on the computer but whatever you write will be erased when you shut off the computer and sign off.
Let me know about your successes after you complete the program.
Love, Morty
Ok, it all sounds good but makes me wonder in what way I’m failing as a parent to my 5 1/2 and 2 1/2 year old child.
What advice can you give me to help me instill positive self belief in my children. I’ve already taught my 5 1/2 year old the difference between being told “You’re a naughty boy” vs ” that was a really naughty thing to do” to the extent that he will pull me up with a lot of feeling if I slip and give him feedback at the identity level rather than at a behavioural level.
However, I do get frustrated when I’ve asked him to do something 5 times or when he does something he’s been told not to do repeatedly ie climb on the furniture.
How do you instill clear boundries without squashing a childs inherent optimism, enthusiasm and joie de vivre. I think I do a decent job most of the time but worry about helping them develop their self confidence whilst also respecting other people.
Hi Sarah. You are NOT alone. I stuggled with the same question and feeling of hopeless in letting my daughter run wild because I didnt want to kill her self esteem. T
The deal is that y0u CANT parent without love withdrawl. No matter how much you tell your kids “I am mad at your behavior and not mad at you”, they still FEEL like you are mad at them. They don’t get that separation like adults can.
So what the heck do you do?
Give them lots of love and approval TO BALANCE their feelings of disapproval.
In the end, a child will develop a healthy self-esteem if overall you give them MORE approval than dissapproval.
Be sure to hug them and tell them good job and things like “mommy loves you just for being you” on a constant basis. Then the occasional times you have to discipline and they feel like you dont love them, it wont affect thier subconscious self-beliefs nearly as much.
-Dave Erickson
Hi Sarah,
Take a look at my wife’s material on parenting which is based on The Lefkoe Method, http://parentingthelefkoeway.com. There are a lot of techniques you can use to get a child to cooperate without telling a child what they must or cannot do. That rarely works.
Love, Morty
I believe kids sense their environment! I don’t know if this helps but my truest most honest comment here is for you to not worry too much. You sound like a well grounded individual! Your child will do what they know And if it is to worry excessively then that will be the result! The best thing we can do as Parents is to watch our children and see in them the strengths they posses, nurture those strengths and you will have a child that will not depart from the way he should go! Love is intended in this message! Good Luck and keep up the good work!
Question
Can things like “introversion” (getting drained by social events.. needing (too much) time alone) be also changed by your method, Morty?
I used to believe I am defected, I am an introvert and I dont fit in into the world. I tried many therapies and they helped a little but progress was EXTREMELY slow, and mostimportantly ; my belief that I’d be better if I was more social etc. was stuck, even worse than before?
Currently my goal is to be able to enjoy social activities and to participate in social life. So I wonder… is introversion -having “quiet” energy fixed, inborn, or it can also be changed?
I am SOOO enthusiastic about this! This is a pure genius! :)
This is making a lot of sense to me. I ordered the whole “Natural Confidence” set this AM. Thanks, Bob
Hi Bob,
Let me know what you think after you complete the program.
Love,Morty
I am a practicing buddhist and we believe that ” When a person makes a request to the universe, some one or something comes from the ” environment ” to answer that request. We call it ” Shoten-Zenjin “, you and your wife are clearly ” Shoten-Zenjin “.
With gratitude & love!
QAMAR
Morty,
I must say that I thought it was a hoax before I actually followed your direction. Well, after the few minutes it took to listen and apply the lesson I hve to say, It works! I feel Great and I notice that life really looks different to me. Things that normally put me on edge, don’t bother me anymore. I change the way I think and I’ve actually changed how I speak to my 10 and 13 year old sons and there is a noticeable difference in them as well. Thank You, I Really Appreciate You And Your Work. You Have Helped Me Change The Quality Of My Life And My Journey Is Getting Easier.
Hi John,
Thanks for letting me know how much value you got from our work. And wait until you eliminate all the beliefs that cause a specific problem and the problem totally disappears.
Love,Morty
Hi Morty, I left a comment last week and never heard back. I’m eager to work through your beliefs and purchase the additional ones but I’m having a hard time seeing my parents as the cause of my beliefs. In my early memories, my parents were very supportive of me.
And I have had some of these beliefs since I was little.
Now that I’m older I have witnessed my parents disapproval once or twice, but I can’t picture that scenario in my childhood. Please help, I’d like to use your videos but am unsure how to move forward.
Hi Katie,
Check out a post I wrote earlier. Hopefully it will answer your questions.
https://www.mortylefkoe.com/031610/
Let me know if this helps.
Love, Morty
Hi Kate & Morty
I am having the same problem as Kate. I have read your linked post but it still isn’t working for me , I just can’t seem to picture a scenario in my early childhood with my parents that caused me to feel I’m not capable. I know i definitely hold this belief .
However, what keeps coming up and giving me a lot of negative emotions is some of my interactions with my (so called) friends in early adolescent years and right up until my early 20s when I decided to get rid of these people from my life. I had some toxic friends trying to bring me down any way they could and I didn’t know any better at the time, i just thought that was how life was. When I focus on these interactions and some of the things I was told I get the feeling this is where I picked up a lot of these negative beliefs as I can’t remember having these before this time.
When I do your program and I focus on these interactions I seem to be getting better results. Is it possible that this is where I picked up these beliefs from? eg. the belief I hold that ‘im not capable of attracting a beautiful partner as i’m not good looking enough’ or whatever as that’s what i was told by all my friends growing up.
Would be great to hear your insight on this Morty :)
One Love
Toby
THANK YOU SO MUCH!! This video arrived – useless to say – in a perfect timing again….
10 days ago “I asked for help” with a prayer to the Universe as I was about to face the very core of my limitations, and I “stumbled” in your website just before going to collect my parents visiting me….the “I am not good enough” program just released so much ……
Your program approach is very helpful and I can´t describe with words how thankful I am…
My best wishes,
Namasté :)
Morty,
You and Dennis really made a difference. Thanks for all the hard work.
I really did get rid off my “not good enough feeling” and I did not even know before that it was part of my problem when I was procrastinating a lot.
Looking forward to this belief buster.
Hi Morty,
I want to thank you so much for sharing this awesome information. I have been working for the past 3 years presenting seminars and doing counselling for Depression, Anxiety and Stress using beliefs system therapy and getting similar results to you, though not 100%. I am so excited to be able to utilise what you have shared to help as many people I can change their beliefs and hopefully change the world. If I can help you in anyway please let me know.
Dear Morty
Thanks for exceptional work. I have personally spend hundreds of dollars buying programs on the net to overcome my fear of public speaking. I have had the privilege of going through the free lessons you offer.
I just seen my confidence resurfacing again. I always felt i am not good enough. And also feared or cared so much about what people think about me. This contributed immensely to my fear of speaking in public.
I really need to have the courage to stand up and air my views. Thanks a million Morty!!!
really good job
i love your work
Hi Achika,
Thanks for letting me know that you love my work.
Love, Morty
Re:
“we waited with baited breath.”
You mean “bated breath” — unless you’d both eaten cheese and were breathing down a mousehole.
Hi Kate,
Thousands of people have read that without catching our mistake. Thanks for finding it and letting us know. We will fix it.
Have a great day.
Love, Morty
Morty:
With all due respect, you have no idea how many people caught your mistake. You only know how many people reported it to you. You are living in your own story. Where else in your life is this happening? Perhaps you need to review the Forum again.
Keep up the good work,
SteveZ
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I have recently discovered your site and I subscribed. I have some beliefs that I need to get rid off. I will see how things work out for me. I am open to everything. Thank you
Hi Dana,
Have you had a chance to eliminate more beliefs yet?
You can eliminate three without any charge to make sure our system works for you. And when you see that it does, you can get packages of beliefs that are guaranteed to eliminate specific problems. Check it out: http://recreateyourlife.com/store.
Let me know what you think.
Love, Morty
Hi David,
Have you had a chance to eliminate any more beliefs since you wrote?
Let me know.
Love, Morty
Hi Rachel,
You’re welcome.
Love, Morty
To Morty and Shelley
Thanks for all this help
Rachel.
Hi Debbie
That really rings a bell for me. Those so and so’s have a lot of issues. Workplaces have been the downfall for me as well. I have left jobs etc and basically I know I am a lot poorer financially because of those people making it so difficult. I do think there are certain jobs like being a secretary/admin assistant where you will always get treated badly unless you are really lucky and get a great boss. And then it can be a great job.
How about thinking of another career or getting out and doing something you really enjoy just to get away from it all. Do some training – it will make you feel better. You can just get focussed on the current situation. I would definitely keep working on issues and of course you need to stand up for yourself, although I know this can also be a problem in these very hierarchical workplaces.
You are not alone although it might feel like that. Coming to read some of these wonderful personal development sites and get the help (for free often), is just so inspiring, so keep logging on and keep your mind open and get as much support as you can.
Take care
Rachel.
Hi Morty,
I’ve struggled for years with belief work and had very little success. I received a link to your program and have done two beliefs in two days, and both seem to be totally gone (I did the “human/ape” test, and the old belief literally made a monkey of me – I made chimp “noises”, scratched under my arms, etc – it was hilarious!). The big thing for me is, I can’t get back to the old beliefs. There are others I’ve identified that I want to work on – things that seem to have been hard-wired for as long as I can remember. Thanks so much for such an awesome tool!
Cheers,
David
I do like your solid, down to earth approach and your clarity.
I am familiar with the importance of “belief removal” in the change of one’s thinking to changing one’s life.
How would your approach be when dealing with a family member who had a psychotic brake at age 15, then diagnosed / labeled with “schizo-affective” illness. The negative belief removal seems extremely important but how to overcome the deep convictions and fierce defenses about the beliefs.
I would greatly appreciate your thoughts and be directed toward research or material in in this matter.
With gratitude,
Waltraud
Hi Waltraud,
We have had very little experience with psychotic breaks so I really have little to say on the issue.
I always think that it should be possible to reach anyone (who they really are) and help them, but I have no evidence for that. And I would always try to work with anyone who wanted to work with me.
I also have no knowledge of research on the issue.
Good luck in finding what you need.
Regards, Morty
I was suprised at how easily this was to do and how genuinely relieved and even excitted I felt after one video. Thank you.
Hi Jules,
Glad to hear how relieved and excited you were after eliminating one belief. Let me know how you feel after you eliminate a bunch more and make some major changes in your life.
Regards, Morty
These programs are really brilliant and I understand completely how they are working. It makes complete sense that this is how we aquired these beliefs.
However, I find it very difficult to actually remember events as a child. I simply cannot remember my parents yelling at me. I do remember getting annoyed with MYSELF when I couldn’t do things. I was a very determined child, but I know I still hold some limiting beliefs. Not being able to remember actual events makes it harder for me to follow the program and imagine what actually caused my beliefs.
Do you have any suggestions to help me with this?
Hi Geri,
I think I answered one of your posts earlier??
I wrote a blog post dealing with finding the source of beliefs that might help. https://mortylefkoe.com/092209 Let me know if this helps.
Regards, Morty
I am really appreciative of these lessons of life. As an abuse survivor from childhood, I have needed these things for a very long time. Thank God for your bringing them forward!
Hi Gloria,
There are a few specific beliefs that abuse survivors have that are not on any of the programs we offer on line.
They usually can be handled in only one or two private phone sessions.
If you’d like to know more about them, please call us at 415-884-0552.
Regards, Morty
@:
Excellent, Roamer! And why is this true? Because each and everyone of them is Source (God) in disguse as you!
With all good wishes for peace, profound,
Arlo
John, isn’t that “remote” rather than “direct” viewing?
With all good wishes for peace, profound,
Arlo
*Please answer outloud!
I know that the wisdom being offered is inherent in all humans already.@:
This is a shrewed and poignant insight, Roamer! I make this statement with the authority of one, who has known, for many years, this fact to be true of himself! With the correct motivation, it may just as well have been you, or I, developing the “Roamer” or the “Arlo” methods.
But, from whence comes the “correct motivation?” It seems to me, that it does not “come” on its own…it must be called! And after it has been called, it must be honed, refined, and shaped into a coherent, easy, applicable, program, by the “caller!”
And the ability to do that is also inherent in everyone; but is the “willingness” to make the effort? I think not, or else we all would be living lives of ease from the income derived, as the results of the ideas we have perfected for the benefit of “others.”
But, Roamer, neither you, nor I, put in the time, effort, and money, to create what is now, rightfully, “The Lefkoe Method.” Morty did, so he is very much entitled, as you say, to “…sell his program at a (reasonable) profit.
As I read all of the comments available so far, I realized that Morty has exposed himself to being made aware of miseries he never would have been aware of, had he not put “The Lefkoe Method” on the market. His replies to some of these commenters, show that he is not insensitive to their plights, since he points out some of the ideas he has done, and others he intends to do, in those replies.
The first two of your suggestions to Morty, are valid ideas, Romaer, that he may very well employ in certain circumstances, as he sees fit. He seems to be the kind of person, that will give you credit and thank you for them, when he does.
Meanwhile, how is it you can so clearly see the “mote” in Morty’s eye, and cannot see the “beam” in your own? You wrote, “…although I would like more creative freedom…” Who is opposing your having such? Surely, it is not, Morty, me, or any of the billions of “others” now living, is it*?
From your enlightened perspective, you are aware that you cannot “have” (Source cannot bring into rour reality) anything you do not see fit (deem yourself worthy) to have. Is it worth your effort to find and remove that block from your mind? Only you, Roamer, can make that determination!
With all good wishes for peace, profound,
Arlo
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Thank you so very much for this belief-busting process! I can’t tell you how different I feel after 20 minutes. This process is simple but powerful and everyone should try it. Thanks!
Hi Morty, your articles really are food for the brain…. keep it up!!! Many thanks…………….
thanks Morty, your program helps a lot
PS I WILL be recommending this website to others. It has inspired me!
Another thought which some people might relate to – the meaning we give to events is already inherent in our lives, regardless if our parents spark it off its manifestation (internally or externally) as a catalyst. That point is alluded to in these free exercises (I don’t know what the others have to say). So what is the real origin of the meaning?
In some cases it is useful to rework our beliefs in relation to child-parent emotional interactions, but in others it may be other event(s) which we have forgotten or are suppressing. It might even be in previous lives. In any case, even if one doesn’t believe in reincarnation it might be possible to appreciate the following point:
If we can’t be sure about the catalyst event and even if we are, why can’t we accept we have a fundamental tendency in our lives and try to rework our belief system, like the Lefkoe idea according to what we experience now?
Spiritually speaking, this tendency is a choice we undertook to discover what how separation from love simply means suffering (and thus how to get back to love and eliminate fear: all these obstacles to fulfilling dreams and our potential is based on fear in its different guises). If that is true, then there is a “higher self” which wants us to unify ourselves with it once more and this self embodies truth. So if we surrender ourselves to the higher self, we come back to the truth of love. That means giving up the ego which is very scary because it tries to hold on to what we think through it as being the true identity. Ego is based upon the belief one is separate. That’s why we see so much destruction in the world because people think they can live in a bubble and feel like victims of circumstance.
If you try hard to envisage and enact love for your enemies (and I don’t mean being nice like a fearful slave), and imagine that they are also on the path of learning you will also have amazing results.
Phew that was long. I’m done!
Firstly I am very grateful for getting some insights into becoming more empowered from this site. I found the exercises refreshing and although I can’t say I eliminated the belief entirely, it helped to give perspective and new inspiration. I am sure it will be of great value to many.
Secondly some critique:
Earning money from such services is totally valid – anyone living in the economic system needs money as a means to survive. At the same time I am somewhat wary of people who claim to have invented a new method for self-empowerment and charge money, when already very wealthy because:
– I know that the wisdom being offered is inherent in all humans already. I was ready to apply the wisdom at the time of looking at the website but I had heard about the same processes and effectively applied these to various extents under different names – Buddhism, Spirituality, Therapy etc (or even no names – simply good advice from wise people!). I suspect Morty is aware of this (but I may be wrong) but has perhaps gone a little astray from the purpose of love by associating money excesses with true happiness. Morty, after all is simply human. Everyone has to go through material desires before becoming fully enlightened, me included.
It may be that Morty is investing any income above that for his personal fulfillment needs in helping the human race achieve empowerment. A true philanthropist. Or it may be that he somewhat undoes his good deeds through excessive consumerism, supporting greedy corporate intitiatives that destroy the environment for example. Or something in between. Who am I to know?
I don’t want to demonise here because Morty and his wife seem like very affable people. I try to ask myself the same question – how much ego is behind my own money-making ventures (as an artist on low but sufficient income for personal happiness although I would like more creative freedom – but I try to live with a small ecological footprint and in harmony with others) and I sometimes forget and ego takes control.
My suggestions:
1) Perhaps Morty could do his business on a donation basis. This may not work for all business (for example I wouldn’t do that generally as musician or guitar teacher – experience has shown me people are not normally wise enough to value the work behind good concerts or guitar teaching abilities or suchlike). But with therapy or physical healing where people experience a dramatic personal recovery – they will normally give accordingly, I know good healers who substanitate this.
2) He could perhaps come clean and state that he is offering a (very beneficial) reminder of inherent wisdom instead of I.M.O. the patented-sounding Lefkoe-Method. This would be scary, I know – but a very exciting experiment in belief system and trust in life / empowerment????
3) More transparency what hetruthfully feels about need for LOTS of money!
Both of these ideas might generate more trust in participants / potential buyers
Thank you,for doing such a great job…It helps me feel better with myself…it motivates me and gives me hope that World could be better …Thank you!
Let me first say that your program is extremely effective. I used it to eliminate the belief that I wasn’t good enough and subsequently discovered that over 20 years it had completely devastated my career. It made me feel dishonest about the good work that I was doing in a field that I loved. Deep down I knew that whatever I contributed to a business or client would eventually blow up because I wasn’t good enough. Eventually I began to bail out on projects and clients because the fear and shame were too intense. Now that I am free of this belief I can forgive myself and approach the rest of my life in anticipation of achieving great things and making important contributions to others. I feel 25 years younger and that anything is possible.
Thank you for the opportunity to also eliminate the blief that I’m not capable. I must say that I interpreted the introduction on this page as a request for me to evaluate the program, and that became a distraction from getting the most out of the process. But knowing how effectively I have eliminated other beliefs and understand myself as the creator of my beliefs I will clear my mind and redo it.
My enthusiasm for this program grows by the hour as its implications become clear to me from moment to moment. I look forward to the release of your training program with baited and bated breath. We can change the world.
Subject: Editing Morty’s “How The Idea of Eliminating Beliefs By Video Was Born.”
Executive Summary: Morty stated he waited for the results of his video beta test with “baited breath” (paragraph 11, line 1). He meant to say, “bated breath.” It is a natural error, used by many.
Complete teasing letter to Morty (send it to him if you can):
Dear Morty,
This is a friendly shot. I hope you enjoy this little “aside” from a compulsive editor.
Of course this misses the whole point of me needing to “smarten up” and simply use your invaluable method to better my life. As one of our Church leaders once said: “Just do it.” I love what you do, Morty!
In your Dec 5/09 email to me, you were kind enough to share your story on “How The Idea of Eliminating Beliefs By Video Was Born.”
The compulsive editor in me is bound to report that when you stated you waited with “baited breath” for the results of your beta test (paragraph 11, line 1), you made a “natural” error. You meant to say, “bated breath.”
So, your poetic mnemonic for memorizing this is:
stated
waited
bated
(like stated, not waited: ” . . . and the first shall be last . . . ” :o)
Please forgive me for bringing this seemingly trivial item to your attention. However, such “trivial matters” help to form the image in a reader’s mind of who you are. Unless, of course, they are not aware of the error either, which research shows is generally the case. :o)
So my editing is not useful for the majority of your readers. :o)
The research also shows that the erroneous “baited breath” will probably become the accepted form. As my friend George used to say, “Sooner or later, ignorance will prevail.” :o)
Nevertheless, for the sake of punctiliousness, herewith is one explanation of why this “natural” error occurs:
http://www.randomhouse.com/wotd/index.pperl?date=19970806
Love and Light forever. :o)
Doc Meek
Salt Lake City, Utah
Hi Doc,
Thanks for taking the time to tell me about the spelling error. We’ll fix it.
Regards, Morty
Wow, is this for real. This does not seem like a product that took 15 years to develop. The intro is pure filler, not really a lot of substance. Is there more to it?
Morty,
This is my 2nd belief-busted. I’m not kidding- I want to learn how to do this with others. This is so important.
Meanwhile, I will share your site with folks.
This is a real blessing you are offering to people, esp right now.
Hi Morty…
I’m so grateful I found your program! “I’m not good enough” hounded me the last fifty years, coloring nearly every decision I made. After spending less than an hour with your program, not only was I liberated from this nagging, lifelong belief, but I awakened at 3 AM the next morning with a burning desire to address a couple other beliefs I realized I clung to. By 5AM I had wept through some long held beliefs about my relationship with my father. I feel like a new man…renewed, energized, full of hope, thanks to you. Please know I will always be grateful…you’ve changed my life!
George
I have been an NLP and hypnosis practitioner for years so I appreciate the unbiquitous impact that beliefs have on our lives. I did the “I’m not good enough” process and realised that the belief had decided to leave just before the proces had finished.
My hat is off to you sir for developing and sharing such a powerful and meaningful tool! Bravo,
John
@: Dear Morty,
What you said about one being scared to change into a “competent” person from after having a lifestyle that focuses in believing that one is “incompetant” (subcosciously or not) – and thereby attracting the negative people and situations that have been “the story of my life” – hit the nail right on the head! I have since began to tell myself whenever I say deal with a grouchy customer very well,( inspite of the snarky remarks from my psycotic co-workers), that I handed that situation professionaly. I even had a compliment from a younger employee the other day saying that I was always very polite and nice to people, even when she would rather punch them in the mouth. Hmmm! That’s refreshing. And yes, morty, I do meditate, in fact I was using Holosync for awhile and some Paraliminals. I’ll still plan on review those programs I watched, anyway, but now with a new mode of thinking.
Debbie
Hi,Mortey
I do received your e-mail. It is about six,but i didn’t respond my comment on your blog. Now i want to say a few thi
ngs about myself. I am a 37 years old person lives in Addis Ethiopia what i feel is not actually my belief i am a victim of my past ,my childhood i.e what i thaught.To face life boldly,bravely i think i do have crippled thinking about myself. I feel am incompetent and capable and really don’t understand the “who am i” question” which really know myself badly. Please,give some advise.
Thank you.
Hi Morty, UR all the prog. works well if it is taken in right way & a right context.I have used all the progs. all R very very effective. Many needs personal touch/connection for their belief to get rid of it. Just a thought What A World Would Be If They Apply These Theory. If U can get a training programme so that we can in the world to help other soul those who are facing these kind of problem. Thanks Morty
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FIGEN’S RESPONSE:
Dear Debbie,
As long as you have the belief in you about being “incompetent”, you will continue attracting situations and people into your life that will constantly bring this word up. Living alone is not the solution because where ever you go, you take yourself with you; and YOU are the one who is closest to you, saying this to yourself. The events in your past only set this up so that you can work on it. You might think that logically you know that you are not “incompetent”; however beliefs and thoughts are not something that you can sense with 5 senses. Talking logic only apply to situations where 5 senses are involved. Beliefs live in your subconscious and can only be addressed energetically.
Emotions and reactions to events in our lives are triggered by the beliefs in our system. If there is a core belief in you which involves the world “incompetent”, no matter what you become in your physical life- even a president of a large company- that belief will always be nagging you. You might also have a psychological reversal about letting go of this belief. You might subconsciously think that if you are “Competent”, you won’t know who you are. When people live in a certain way for some time, they come to believe that it is part of their identity. They build their whole life around this identity. When they face the option of letting this belief go, they get scared because they don’t know how else TO BE. It is an unknown territory, and some people are very afraid of change. You might understand what I am saying, and sometimes this awareness only is sufficient for a transformation to happen. Sometimes, though, you might need to take extra steps, and use techniques to be able to get those beliefs out of your system. The method described on this website is one of those techniques. I use EFT, energy healing, and meditations. Good luck! Figen
Hi Morty,
I did try your free program by the net to eliminate one of the belief but to be perfectly honest, i am still sceptic about this.
Let me explain you why :
For the past 15 years, I have been working and spending all my money that I had on self development. In term of well being, I guess I am feeling ok but what I am missing now is having a income.
I am now looking to earn a income but my self confidence, my self esteem, what my head is saying is not helping me to materialze in this world and I am desperate and tired at this point. My financial situation is extremely bad not because I don’t have a courage or the determination to make it right but because my subconscious is pulling me backward all the time. Because of this bad belief, I am not been able to work since the past 15 years and earn any income. Instead, I am a dependant person financially and this has been going for too long !
I am in a catastrophic situation. I need help. I know deep inside that I can get out of this mess but for some reason, I have not fund the right solution. And I am so tired of working on self develepoment without being to materialse. For me this is not life !
As I have loose everything, a job, the appartment,the car, the unpaid morgage and I am crushed with debt, now, I am about to loose my family.
So I am asking you for help. If you can transforme me to become a responsable man by getting unblock my old belief so that I can earn a income. I would dig a deeper into my grave to paid your fees.
Right now, I don’t belief spending a penny anymore unless it is efficient and I can see that it is materialise in a concrete thing. My goal is earning money instead of borrowing! I need proof that this really work and put me back financially.
I am not a lazzy person, I am not afraid to work hard and far away from being dishonest person.
Sicerely,
Perry
Morty,
I tried “I’m Not Good Enough” and “I’m not Capable”. I guess I have to repeat them to drill it into my head that these are untruths, but I feel the contents do not wash with me. When i was a kid I heard all the negative stuff and when I grew up I decided that what my parents told me about myself was all crap (I sought out Cognative Therapy, which this program also seems to emmulate.) However, when I got into the workforce my bosses were calling me to the office and calling me “incompetant” “an oddball” “useless”, etc. My co-workers and spouse also screamed and yelled at me calling me these things as well. I now live alone, and have a series of different jobs, but I can’t get away from the nasty behaviors of others. Every job I’ve had has a co-worker or boss who screams at me! Does it really matter what I feel about myself if all these other a**holes around me beat me down anyway?
Debbie
Dear Morty.
I find your program very useful and very necessary in order to achieve goals in my life.
I feel strongly that this would be the solution I have searched for many years.
I want to tell a story which will show how powerful that program impact is:
I am well known in my past for a guy that when get rejected by a woman get into despair.
I had in the past many times I got to woman, suggested her to be my girl and when she refused – instantly or after few dates, then I was falling hardly into despair. I was in the bed and when friends come I would still cry.
One day my dad came to me and told me he arranged a date for me date: on 18 oct 2009 he told me that he arranged it and I felt that I need to know better of remove “Im not important” so I can speak up and “I’m not good enough” because I saw that the first one worked and had a great impact. On the next day 19 oct 2009 I came to meet with her, really got crashed on that fine lady, In the end of the date she rejected me.
you might now be thinking “how long was you in despair?”.
Actually, I learned from Uncle Morty ( :D ) that when one do not want to see what you have to show you will need to see more colors than black / white.
So I asked her why and she responded “I have no time right now I got into a new job this week and in the near past I quit from relationship with my former friend”.
Since that I knew that she had a reason that does not include that I am not important or not good enough I asked her to walk with me outside, we shook hands, and the next day she got her phone to be closed as soon as I call her.
How long was I on despair?
I can’t even tell if I had any.
Since I saw this effect on my life I tried the “Mistakes and Failures are bad”
It made me feel more confident about try again and see if I can meet up with girls the day after reject , but I couldn’t do it since I have more believes that are needed to be deleted that made me conclude that I can’t ask girls to date.
Now that I saw this impact on my life I know that any girl I date with and will reject me will not cause any effect on me, ( my past sadness last few months or years, comparing to 0 seconds after hear that program)
I am willing to get all of the programs as soon as I can and I would suggest others to try the free examples to see the impact on their life.
I find this program so empowering , that it might be that in the future the thing that will determine between people that are mentally capable of dealing with any situation and people that aren’t will be weather they watched this program or not.
Lior age 21 Israel.
(i`m from russia)
Here I`m and my lousy English :)
“I`m not capable” was difficult one. First, some questions in English require answer “No”, but in Russion it is “Yes” – just grammar difference between languages. Second, when the teacher says something, and in that time pictures quickly changes – difficult to read and listen different thighs in one time.
Howewer, I wasn`t sure, that I really not capable of something – intellectually, I`m self-confident and sucessful man. But during the process I`ve found many things – and lots of fears. So, I listened almost 3 times whole process.
IT REALLY DID WORKED FOR ME!!!!
THANK YOU MORTY VERY VERY MUCH!!!
BAD EYES SO USE CAPS
HI MORTY
IF YOU REALY WANT TO REACH MILLIONS AND NOT BE A CASH GRAB GURU. WHY NOT SET UP A PROGRAM TO CHOP THE TREE AT THE TRUNK INSTEAD OF CLIPPING ONE LEAF AT A TIME. WHY NOT ADDRESS THE CORE BELEIFS. ESPECIALLY WITH REGARDS TO PEOPLES FINANCES. SELL AT $29.99 OR LESS($5 X 1 MILLION =) YOU WILL SELL MULTI-MILLIONS AND THE PEOPLE WILL BE ABLE TO AFFORD ALL YOUR PROGRAMS, EVEN AT $29.99 MAKING YOU MULTI-MILLIONS MORE AND REACHING ALOT MORE PEOPLE. THE PEOPLE WHO REALLY NEED YOUR WORK. RITE NOW I COULN’T AFFORD EVEN 29.99.(COULD ALWAY COLLECT EMPTIES-HERE IN CANADA THE DON’T PAY FOR YOUR BLOOD)
HEARTFULLY
D.J.
OK I tried, but nothing happened, and so???
I work with people on their limiting conscious and unconscious beliefs. Your programme ia brilliant!!! I had a real emotional awakening when I uncovered a belief I had about myself, that I didn’t know I had!!! Needless to say, I have been raving about you to clients, colleagues, friends and family! You truly are a gift to the world! It has helped me tremendously working with my clients, as well as helping me!Thank You!
Dear Morty,
Thank you so much for allowing me the opportunity to bust another belief. I cried through some of it, remembering how I gave meaning to events in my childhood. Now, I cannot say “I’m not capable” without chuckling; it is not THE truth, and I am grateful to realize the difference between truth and facts.
Thank you!
Blessings,
Joy
Hi Rosie-
I think maybe, if you go in thinking to exorcise, or banish, or reconcile old memories, you will miss the benefits of this process.
Try to stick to answering the questions based on how YOU felt and what YOU saw. Not why and what they did, or why and what they didn’t.
I had a very reserved and remote upbringing. So I have had to recall what reactions I had to that stoicism and lack of response, the expressionless reactions, the silent treatments.
Maybe let it rest a few days, then try again. My first belief-buster was fairly emotional, but the next two were quicker and really kind of fun! And I am going to do the first one again, now that the emotional load is gone, and I know that I can move forward past my old beliefs, and still be the same person–just a little more of ME there!
Warmest thoughts,
Linda C
Great idea, but it is soooo hard to take yourself back to painful memories.My early memories do not seem to involve just my parents but responses from siblings and from other people about my siblings and many of my beliefs are not just a result of what they actually said but what was NOT said. I made assumptions because I often got NO response at all!when I did get reactions often they were swift and non verbal and unexplained, so I find a lot of this doesn’t really help a great deal. maybe I’m missing something? or not exorcising the right memories. No response from people can be as damaging and misleading as over reactions. Where do I go from here?
I’ve done this program twice and find the belief is less each time. thank you so much mary ann
Hello Morty and team, i just saw the latest video.
and it was exactly what i needed at this time.
I’ve actually been through a 5+ yr intensive of the Course in Miracles and other studies
where I was learning how to practice and teach from the Course, but ended up leaving it for a while.
And this seemed to be lessons from the Course knocking at my door once again.
you’ve captured the essence and usefulness
of these type of studies quite well.
It really is all about a mental paradigm shift and liberation.
But i actually do have one question for you…
I haven’t quite yet figured out what to do about
this almost culture shock like feeling going from the highs
of realizing our own creativeness,
to the locked in paradigms most people have, especially when these
impressions, opinions, judgements, and chit chat of others can affect
our own state, work, and relationships.
on the one hand i don’t know if there’s much one can do
about other peoples opinions and beliefs, and people always say,
don’t let the opinions of others affect you.
but on the other hand, because I know it’s just their impressions,
I feel like I should at least address things and see what I can do
to change these impressions or at least figure out how to make my best impressions.
but I would like to hear yours and other peoples
views and perspectives about all this.
Look forward to it.
~ Peace ~
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Hello,
When deciding to come to you to help me bust my beliefs that are holding me back, I was undecided as to which one I should choose, so I went with I am not capable. I can’t remember the others but I felt I was those too. I did not delve into the material because it kind of fit me but I also wish I would have chosen the other one because I think that one would fit too. So I am in quite the quandry as to know if this would work for me. I think it is great that you have come up with something that sounds great and the results are amazing for the amount of investment you put in. I would love to try it (if it doesn’t cost too much) and I would love to implement these into my life. Many people say it works and that makes me feel a little better but as it often goes what works for some doesn’t work for all (I usually fit in the minority). So I will make time to try it out and then give you a full description of my feelings on it.
Thank you,Trisha
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Dear Morty & Shelly
I tried your next belief elimination exercise of ‘I’m not capable’. I had to go through it a second time but it has helped me to feel a bit more at ease about this particular belief. Thank you.
Monique.
Morty,
I love the material you have provided. I had to listen over and over to some of it because I struggled to see that I am indeed the creator, so even if my logical mind agreed with you, it just wasn’t getting in with conviction to fast.
I would love to get more of your material, and like so many, I too struggle with derserving $$ in my life. Guess as the creator I will have to work on that belief.
I’ve mentioned you on all my social networks, so thanks again, I hope to join you class soon.
P.S. If you want to work on another freebie, make it focus on deserving/$$, so more of us can come up with the bucks for your stuff.
While appreciate that you seem to have discovered a powerful means of
eliminating self defeating beliefs, I am saddened that you seem to have a need, as a self proclaimed millionaire, to continue charging such a large amount of money
for your process. A process which seems to have provided you with all that you
desire. It would be nice if you would now take into consideration the needs of those that have not been as fortunate as you, and share your program freely.
You may just benefit even more, in doing so.
Thank you so very much Morty for sharing your great creation with all of us, for free!!!! Amazing!!.
I have been working on my patterns with good effective methods for quite a few years and with time and a lot of work, I eliminated some of them.
Your method is so powerful that I could eliminate 2 beliefs by just following your videos which took about 1 hour for the 2.
My next belief will be about money issues. When done I will buy your entire program. At 65 I have no more time to loose.
Health, Smile and Peace to you Morty, you are Godsent.
Denise in Canada
Hi Morty,
Thank you so much for your work! I did the “I’m not good enough” process last week and thought I wanted to do it again, but when I went back to it, I realized I no longer believe it. How fun! My interactions with others are changing (for the better) — even with people I simply pass on the sidewalk or usually see on the bus — strangers are smiling at me and saying “Hello”. I plan to do the “I’m not capable” process in a few minutes.
Love and peace your way,
Diana
Thank you Monty for enunciating so clearly the underlying principle in behind these intangible but real inhibitors to human kind the world over.
A problem that remains for me relates to being abnormally slow to learn both academically and from lifes mistakes.
I know mistakes and failues have no moral quality of themselves but become reality for me when one is confronted with the visible disastrous results of human stupidity.
David, the stupidiy of “others” cannot affect you, unless you allow it to…your own can and will, if you allow it to!
With all good wishes for peace, profound,
Arlo
Hi Morty,
I can’t thank you enough for sharing this with others. I ws feeing, incapable and definately not good enough. The feelings, compounded by my age limiting belief (73) that I was too old to try anythinng new and the way a lot of younger people just dismiss senior citizens as dumbkoffs or disrespect us have completely reversed, thanks to your videos. I have a new zest for living and actually feel happy, most of the time. Thank you, thank you, thank you. Anne
Thank you Morty for your great work-giving us for free
Wish you health wealth and happyness
DEAR MORTY,
THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THIS POWERFUL PROGRAM FOR BUSTING BELIEFS..
THIS IS VERY PROFOUND…THANK YOU!!
THANK YOU FOR YOUR GREAT WORK!!
I have done two of your series and find them remarkably simple and effective. I have a question. How or where does the long standing belief “You cannot be successful as an artist” fit in? I have struggled with this statement which has been drilled into me from all corners, to the point that I have tried to BE someone or something else to no avail, but I also have no confidence in my ability to sell my art either.
Thank you for everything you are sharing here.
Nancy
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Reply from Morty
Hi Nancy,
The belief you mention and other related beliefs are not on any Internet program we’ve developed, but we have helped a number of clients with similar issues in private phone sessions.
If you would like more information, please call us at 415-884-0552.
Regards, Morty
Nancy, the very fact that you are motivated to create “art,” means that a market for it already exists as “someone” (or more than one) is/are desperatly waiting it get their hands on it!
Can you visualize yourself and them being at a public display of your work and “see” them writing you checks (or handing you cash) as you, in turn, hand them your creations?
If so, you can go about your daily life, knowing that in truth it has already happened. Do not concern yourself with “how” it will happen, for by doing so, you limit Source’s avenues of fullfillment!
With all good wishes for peace, profound,
Arlo
I just tried the “I’m not capable” session. It is so simple, yet so profound.
I am very impressed at what you have put together. It is far better than many, if not all of the other programs I have tried in the past, along the same line. It is simple, direct and to the point.
This is helping on one level. I am also exploring direct viewing/influencing. It is helping on an entirely different level. The two are very complementary.
After years of depression and loss of direction, things are looking up. It just gets better and better. The light at the end of the tunnel actually looks brighter and brighter all the time. I expect to eventually come out into the bright sunshine.
I wish everyone the best of luck.
Thanks again: John S.
Hello Morty,
I did the “not good enough”, and the “not capable”, and then today I did the “mistakes & failures are bad”.
Since eliminating the first 2 beliefs my sales at work went through the roof & I am happy all the time. People all around me are responding very positively to me, so this is infectious!
Thank you so much, I can’t wait to see how I do at my job tonight. But I have already decided that I will be amazing!
Many thanks and I hope to hear about the next steps soon.
Love,
Kath
Wonderful work Mr Lefkoe. Very innovative process. It works. Thank you. Glenford Smith
Hey, amazing. I did the I’m not capable program and found it clear and effective. I would really like to try some of the other beliefs – are there really 20? Children are so sensitive aren’t they. Thanks.
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Reply from Morty
Hi Leila,
I’ve gotten rid of over 200 beliefs over the past 24 years. To get rid of any given problem there can be from 10 to 30 beliefs. We do have a program you’ll be hearing about in another day or so that has 19 of the most common and debilitating beliefs.
Regards, Morty
I didn’t even know I had that belief, but after doing the exercise yesterday, I felt different. I kept saying throughout the whole day “I am capable” and it seemed that I was seeing things in a whole new way, like a child. I was thinking was that the last time I felt like I was capable. Amazing.
It was a great program, simple and easy. It helped, as I had a father that thought telling you what you do wrong instead of right will keep you working hard!
I interact with my 9 year old daugther differently too – I watch how I say things…. Thanks for the FREE program, it helps during these times.
Best regards and much thanks,
Maria W.
HI,
I got really, really deep with this belief. Now I can see how capable I was with my “not so clear” and depressed mother, who was never satisfied with anything or anybody and who was a real controlfreak (a new nice belief, but nice relief for me. Thank you for this site!
Sorry morty, I am capable and have tought dozens of people public speaking. Giuseppe
thank you for that, i am awaiting other programs ! i know it will make an awesome difference in my life, and my childrens life ! i am changing the way i respond to them….thank you so much !
I must say I’m very grateful to you Morty for the wonderful experience thanks again.
Bertram
hi morty, I was sent a link to your site and found the I’m not good enough etc. programm and i attempted it twice and was interupted and unable to complete it and now i can not find it. so i will give this i’m not capable a shot and i feel sure i will be giving you some positive feed back. i am in a state of nervious tension and feeling like crap and yet i feel positive that whatever i do is helping me at all levels i lived a life in the past of hiding in someone eles’s shadow and i want to live the rest of my life being confident and capable to help myself and others.
love light and laughter C.D.
Hi,
I wanted to click on the “Who am I really”, but there was no where to click it?
Thank you.
Amber
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Reply from Morty
Hi Amber,
We’ll be giving information about the Who Am I a Really? program in the next couple of days.
Regards, Morty
I love your program, It really works! I recommend it to all. Please keep it going!