What topic do you want me to write on?

Hi Morty,

Here’s something you can write about: Fear of Long Term Commitment.

I know many people, specially guys, have this sort of fear specially when it comes to relationships. In my case its relationships AND dieting.

One of the reasons that prevents me from sticking on a diet day after day, every day, is this “phobia”…. this nagging thought that “Do I have to do this EVERYDAY? Do i have to stick to this diet plan on a daily basis? No way!”

I am sure you got the point.

Upon some introspection, I recalled the childhood events that probably lead me to feel so this way about commitment and “hanging along”.

The events went like this: When I was a kid, my brother always went out for jogging, at odd times, like at night or right after having a meal. And every day my parents used to shout at him for doing so. Their anger was coupled with the words such as “… Every day you are doing this” and “You are so stubborn, not even once you listen to us”

The emphasis had always been on “Every day”… as if doing it once in a while was fine but doing it everyday is a crime.

The meaning I gave to those events was “Its stubborn to do something every day” or “There’s something wrong with doing the same kind of exercise every day” or “Its hard to stick to a plan for a long such time” or “Its not easy to commit yourself to a routine for a long time”

Then I went further and explained to myself that those events could have had many alternative meanings, and the meanings I gave to those events were not The Truth but just one out of many possible interpretations.

So, I just wanted to share this with you. And thought you might want to expand on this and shed more light on this.

Looking forward to hear from you.

Osman

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Hey Morty what do you say about this core belief list http://www.core-beliefs-balance.com/example_negative_core_beliefs.htm . It helped me allot and I’ve just done the first few beliefs.It is nice to have a list and work beliefs one by one. Also for stuff like feeling safe in the world your natural confidence hasn’t beliefs for, and many more other stuff, maybe you could use this list and make some new programs for people out there.

Thanks.

I’m curious to know what beliefs make us lie.

What about if, as a child, you are weak, or constantly getting sick. You want to do all stuff a child wants to do, but, because of what I just mentioned, you get to the conclusion: I’m not good enough. I’m not worthy because I’m ill. And so on. In this case, your parents didnt have anything to do with your conclusions. How can we deal with our own relationship to ourselves?

Hi Morty,

Last time I spoke with Shelly she told me that you have trouble eliminating the beliefs of those who are more “feelers” than others. She brought this up because I have come back to you many times with help for public speaking and nothing seems to work. I went through the public speaking program, then spent more money on the public speaking program and still am terrified of speaking in public. You (yourself) had one session with me and I didn’t feel any different afterward. You and Shelly have given me free sessions for this. Nothing has worked. 
The most recent event was this past Monday when I pretended that I was sick just so that I wouldn’t have to speak in public. Your work-or-money-back public speaking program didn’t work for me. 
Obviously, I’m a disappointed customer. I have not requested my money back from you. I would rather you fix me than give me my money back. 

My request is that you come up with a program for people like me. I do not want this terrible fear or other fears.  

You may only need to make a slight adjustment to the approach. I have no idea what that is. But my request is that you try to figure this out. 

Imagine when you can really say that your program works for everyone. That would be amazing.

Respectfully,

Dawn

Hi Morty,
I’m being greedy but here is another question you maybe able to help me with and some other readers may find the same challenge or perhaps have a solution. When I first read your stuff, I thought as I did when I first discovered hypnotherapy, brilliant, now I know this, it makes so much sense and everyone will want to know this stuff as well and use it to make their lives better – why wouldn’t they. Anyhow they do not, and as with NVC(non violent communication) my ears are open now to how much we blame everything else for our problems etc. The problem is that to keep rapport with anyone you need to speak the same language and I now find that by hearing differently I am trying to speak another language, one that most do not want to know about. So I sometimes feel I either live like a hermit and keep my little world of change therapy, silently listening to everyones gripes, or I almost contradict myself and join in with others conversations and beliefs. This may seem hypocritical but trying to convince someone the weather isn’t spoiling his day, eventually just seems to be wearing me down. Its a totally different paradigm that you are teaching and one I find hard to jump between. Its like saying to someone of a certain faith, listen I know you believe this but no one wants to listen to you, so you are going to have to go against everyting you believe otherwise you won’t fit in. At least with religeons there are enough people following the faith you could hang out with – you don’t find many people using the Lefkoe method on the building site – I know I work on one!

I hope this makes sense to you or anybody else. I think what I’m saying is this is great if everyone’s talking the same language but how do we happily communicate if not?

Thanks Morty for your time.

How you stop worrying about supporting your family.. When every endeavour you have with running your own business.. is not bringing the money in… Some how it becomes about the business not you

less talk, more clarity, balanced inner/outer life

I would like to release many limiting beliefs that do not serve me that have come from a very strict religious upbringing. I have always said that growing up I had 3 parents…..my mother, my father and the bible. The information I was taught as a child, generated into fear and I know has restricted my life. I find that religion based beliefs are very tough to find.

I have purchased the natural confidence program and the belief elimination process only worked on one or two beliefs. I would like to know why it sometimes doesn’t work, is it something I’m doing?

Please comment on the particles and dynamics of your relationship with your wife ,was it chance or preconceived and how you fill it best,to fit in you’ll life work.

What if you genuinely lack verbal ability and that is what makes you nervous socializing.

Morty
I want to know if a relationship may be fixed after having long time of separation.

Is there a cure for continuous mental chatter? Please do write how to stop it o that the mind is aligned with whatever the body is doing?

I think that in order to develop properly we need a sense that we have been welcomed into the world with open arms, that we are loved by our care takers. However, many of us have been born to people who may seem to resent our arrival thereby depriving us of the sense of a welcomed existence and that feeling of being loved by mom and dad. Maybe one or both of our parents didn’t want to have a kid and then we came along. The stress of our parents is always sensed by us when we are kids, especially if our parents never wanted us and are just making due because they’re stuck with us.

That being said… You do good work to eliminate limiting beliefs but I don’t think it truly addressed that emotional emptiness that a kid can grow up with if they weren’t wanted by their parents. Being deprived of that warm welcome and grateful love from mom and dad can leave a person feeling that their existence is an intrusion instead of knowing that they have the right to exist. How can a person fill that emptiness that mom and dad were supposed to fill but didn’t? I think this is deeper then eliminating a belief. I think this one requires replacing a void with substance. What do you think?

I would like to thank you for sharing you idea with us.
I`ll be greatfull if you tell me about how can we take away all limitation that made it by ourself?

Many thanx

Motivation!!

Hi Morty,

I would be grateful if you could write about this topics:
-About seduction and the limiting beliefs that are holding us back from loving and having amazing relationships with women.
-I would like to see list of all the beliefs you have eliminated.
-How we can use the LBP our self to eliminate beliefs that aren’t in your programs

Thanks that’s all for now.